So a little update…. we met up and it was all nice nice… I held firm and stood my ground… I left and then he turned nasty… messaging me about a credit card that I used in his name to replenish funds from a joint account that was running low and didn’t dare tell him at the time. He now is saying I am the one in the wrong. I have returned home as he said he would leave my dog alone, he said he will go to his mums house, I highly doubt it to be honest but we will see. I have my key in the door and locked it. If he does return later I will just have to take my daughter out of bed and go to my safe space again. I need to find somebody to short term look after my dog. 🙄