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    • #90864
      Kindheart123
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      Thank you everyone, there’s so much love here it has helped me so much, today I’ve booked an appointment at my doctors, I really appreciate everything you have all said it’s given me the reassurance I needed.

    • #90837
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      Thank you, it’s really head to open up about something that not everybody agrees with or some people have struggled with. I am a firm believer of it being a woman’s choice in what they do with their body and I made that choice not just for myself and I know that deep down. I will take everything everyone has said on board thank you.

    • #90834
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      I really appreciate your support, I’m looking into getting help now, I tried emailing and the chat group as this is the first time speaking out loud about any of this and I felt like going seeing somebody face to face and telling them all this was extremely daunting. I’m giving myself the time to gather some courage but I think I’m heading in the right direction. Thank you for the continued support.

    • #90844
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      Thank you so much, I’m no longer with the person, after months of various other things I reached breaking point and I said I wouldn’t follow his rules anymore (which we’re I can’t see my friends or go for a drink or night out anymore when I’m not even 21 yet). I am on the contraceptive pill now as I couldn’t trust him and I had to put my fate in my own hands,you definitely didn’t over step the mark as I fully agree with you, thank you for your advice and understanding

    • #90836
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      Thank you so much, I am finding this group really helpful and it’s getting me to open up and get some of the support I need, I’m definitely just plodding on at the minute but I need to take more control in the way I heal, I appreciate your kind words I really do thank you

    • #90825
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      No I haven’t I will have a look for it thank you, I try and be positive and remember that his words are the words of someone who wanted to hurt me, but after hearing it so much you do start to believe it, I just need to remain positive and keep trying, thank you for your help

    • #90799
      Kindheart123
      Participant

      Thank you so much I really appreciate this. I have blocked and deleted his number already, I have got rid of him and his family on social media and I’m trying to move on now, I’ve been talking to some of my friends but I always feel like I’m pestering and talking about the same thing over again, I struggle opening up so this was a massive thing for me hence why I’ve waited a few months. I think I was overwhelmed by his actions and that’s why I have struggled to process it as abuse.
      I will take everything you said on board thank you for helping me x

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