Thank you so much for your reply SingleMomSurvivor, that is EXACTLY what he is doing, I am working with a local MH charity and they have put me in a DA peer support group, I ran the emails through them and the texts all agree that I wasn’t in anyway hostile or nasty. Just…..yeah, gets in your head! When he said he ‘couldn’t see the kids because of hostile environment’ my (detail removed by moderator) snorted and went ‘yeah, whatsevs’ which speaks volumes to me!! It’s 5am, I am sat in the dark with my (detail removed by moderator) asleep and panicking 🙁