I just have a few questions.
Hi Dickie
If the dv was perpetrated (detail removed by moderator) and reported now, would Clare’s Law still apply? Also the perpetrator has married for the (detail removed by moderator). He appears to have treated this wife really well for the past (detail removed by moderator). He cooks, cleans, does the shopping, takes her on holiday. However, he has denied all previous dv incidences perpetrated against me and refused to go on a course. Could he have changed? He has a new son whom he idolises as well as the kids from his first marriage. Sadly, he treats our children (children from his second major relationship) differently.
Secondly, how does one stop thinking about his life? He seems to have come out of it much better since he left me (detail removed by moderator). I have managed to find work and look after my children, but because I didn’t report him earlier he seems to have got off ‘scott free.’
Thank you for help.