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[mom1]

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I feel my situation is backwards. MY emotionally abusive husband left me and now our elementary school daughter doesnt want to see him. she said he left the family so he isnt my parent anymore. I try to tell her he left me not her but she said I dont have a dad anymore. He is nice to her, just bad to me.

[mom1]

I am having a really hard time. I hate feeling alone. I miss him and I don’t even know why. I cant sleep and think about him all the time. I always feel like everything is my fault. I did check his phone and question where he was, but after all the times he cheated he said i just trust him and I couldn’t. Now we live in 2 different states and he still calls our daughter every day. We do not talk except through text on payday when i get child support. He gets upset that i don’t send him pictures and report cards of hers and he says it makes him sad and he feels like he is being punished. (its always about him and how he feels) but i feel like i don’t owe him anything if he wants pictures of her he can tell her and she can send them. its been (detail removed by moderator) months and he has not bothered to ask how I am. he really just doesn’t care. How can someone just use you up and then throw you away?

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