So ex turned up again twice last week 1st time early evening demanding to be let into garden.second time turned up at 7 in the morning my son told him he shouldn’t be there and he should respect my privacy to which ex replied it’s his f***ing house and he will come and go as he pleases. Feeling extremely unsettled and scared. I know he’s trying to intimidate me and sure he’s happy that he’s succeeding, he’s just trying to let me know that although we’re not together anymore he still has control. Really not sure how much more of this I can take.