Sabel

[Sabel]

Unfortunately as I found out yesterday he does not feel any need to apologise – he is not returning home as in his words to other family members I am a ‘f**ng b**ch’ who kicked off and called him names when he was having a bad day.  This is a lie, not something that he’s misinterpreted , it’s a lie. He is also refusing to return because I won’t leave my own home.  I am being made to be someone who has done something wrong , I am not the only person he has done this to and he still believes an appropriate reaction was to shout abuse, threaten and smash up his things

[Sabel]

Thank you – I think it’s good to feel sometimes that I’m not going crazy tbh.
My stepson is now staying with his mother who ‘has given up because she can’t control him’ and I’m being told that I’ll need to talk to him when he comes home as ‘he’s still in a bad mood about it all’ because I was just one more person on his back that day.

It’s giving me the fear him returning home – his temper is uncontrollable but because he can act sorry for a couple of days – the situation repeats itself and I’m afraid that he won’t stop until the worst happens

[Sabel]

Thank you everyone.

At the moment I feel as though I just need some time as my head is a bit of a mess with it – I don’t know how I feel and know that might sound silly because I know what happened wasn’t okay.

[Sabel]

Thank you I think I’m trying to come to terms in my head still of how the person I know turned into someone I just wanted to run away from , he reminded me of my dad and I love my dad but didn’t ever want to be with someone who was that angry

[Sabel]

Thank you for your replies , i haven’t read it no, but I’m going to have a look. I think I’m just finding it hard because I’ve never thought of him like that and don’t know because even what happened wasn’t directly at me but it’s scared me a little

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