Toastie123

[Toastie123]

Thankyou for your reply. I’m actually really annoyed about the door, it’s the first time he’s done it in this new house( we’ve been moved a few months) but our old house was terrible with damage to walls/doors I gave up filling in the end. I thought this would be a fresh start.

He said it’s my fault for not giving him the chance to wake up but I did as he asked and only went back in there as i knew he was going back to sleep. I could hear our toddler going downstairs and I’m not comfortable letting a (detail removed by Moderator) year old fend for himself.

I think your right it’s entitlement, the reason he reacts like that and am worried about my son witnessing this and the name calling. My partner says he doesn’t understand he’s just a toddler but my little boy’s reaction, I know he understands anger if not the words and that’s what upsets me the most.

[Toastie123]

(detail removed by moderator) we agreed he would get up with our son. It’s one of things we argue about. I get up anywhere between (detail removed by moderator) everyday and said I would just like one day a week to lay in.

I put the (detail removed by moderator) light on, gently (detail removed by moderator) asking if he’s (detail removed by moderator). I say (detail removed by moderator). He says (detail removed by moderator). I leave (detail removed by moderator) there and go back into the other room. I hear our son open the bedroom door to go downstairs (there’s only (detail removed by moderator) not ours). I get up to follow our son as I know my partner has closed his eyes again. I tell my partner and he says to (detail removed by moderator) so what’s the point.

He starts shouting (detail removed by moderator) and slams his fists against the wall. I take our son downstairs and he follows me, and just keeps repeating (detail removed by moderator) and calling me names. I say the point is you (detail removed by moderator). He punches the door and makes a hole in it. Our son is upset now and doesn’t want to go with him, I’m fully awake.

I feel like it’s probably my fault and none of this would have happened if i just got up on my own. This is what I struggle with I’m always to blame, I feel like we get on fine as long as I don’t disagree with him and challenge him on anything. But then maybe he was never planning on getting up as he stayed up till (detail removed by moderator) last night.

Thankyou for your reply and giving me a safe space to write things out.

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