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7th September 2024 at 11:50 am #171212UndeckedkittenParticipant
It didn’t go the way I expected (detail removed by Moderator) but it did end badly.
He messaged me saying he’s going to his (detail removed by Moderator) and he has left something for me (detail removed by Moderator). I told him I knew what he’d left me and I’m not accepting them as it’s definitely pushing my boundaries.
His messages then flipped from ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’ to ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’ ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’ to ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’ ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’ and his favourite ‘(detail removed by Moderator)’.
I stood my ground and ended up blocking him. I woke up this morning and had a clear vision of what I wanted to do so I contacted the police, I came into a station and told them mostly everything. I’ve not made an official statement but they’ll put it on their records. Its simultaneously the scariest and freeing thing I’ve done. I never wanted this but I was stupid to think he’s go quietly.
He’s on (detail removed by Moderator) so I’m staying out until I know he’s gone and he’s staying blocked.
It’s so hard but I had to because he was getting into my head again.
It’s horrible because they’ve slowly chipped away at us until there’s nothing left.
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1st September 2024 at 11:21 am #171086UndeckedkittenParticipant
Yes I do feel guilty, I know this is hurting him and we’ve been through a lot this year but enough is enough.
I feel like we’ve built this life and now it’s falling apart. I know in my soul I’m doing the right thing.
I have to be something I’m not and be heartless because if I feel anything else I’ll be tempted to stay and I know it’ll most likely be worse this time, it’ll be nice for about 2 months if I’m lucky then it’ll start again and likely progress in a really bad way.
He is just ignoring me at the moment but it can’t go on like this.
I have loads to do tomorrow.
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30th August 2024 at 5:21 pm #171062UndeckedkittenParticipant
I just feel bad but then I remember all the things he’s done and my strong feeling that I cant do it anymore then it all comes back.
He’s playing the guilt trip, I’m making him homeless, he has nowhere to go etc so I feel like I have no choice but to leave now.
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