From my experience children do get affected
My eldest daughter has been saying that this is not a normal relationship and why have we lived together . But she has also declined to get married and echoing her father’s life that marriage is not important to her. Having a partner is not important to her, but every other relationship is over the top
important to her, as her father has been behaving. For (detail removed by moderator) he has been going to have a month long holiday with his brother and sister and their families and isolating me. Because I have some negative views about them. And for him they are all faultless.
These situations can turn out to be, you are damned if you don’t and you are damned if you do.
Share your fears about impact on children’s future relationship with them and go from there.
