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I want to reply to all of the above. Just to let people know I am safe and thank you so much for the support and kindness. The horrid texts stopped suddenly and then I came face to face with him. I ignored him completely though it was the first time I had seen him for a year. That was a few weeks ago and nothing since. In the mean time I have been ill so will try to get a Dr appointment, not easy where I live and continue to be vigilant. I never relax and I know I will never relax knowing what he is capable of. I’ll never feel safe if he knows where I am. He has been known to carry a weapon and he has threatened to kill me numerous times. He appears to give up and move on, but he ALWAYS starts it again. And the police treat it as a new episode every single time. For now though I’ll continue trying to think of ways to improve my heachances of a normal life.

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I have been scared of doing much to sort the problem out because he knows so many people. One thing I am sure of is that it was definitely abuse and he is terrifying. He makes me feel sick. I just wonder why does he exist, why do I have to exist? He has sent a load of texts in the past few weeks, all of them Cruel, nasty and accusing me of all kinds of things. I was not aware I had a block list on my phone. Did not know he even had my number. The police don’t make any difference, everything is always reported, but either not followed up or poorly handled. I’m going to try and contact a solicitor for advice, but I don’t have any confidence for anything much. Not sure whether I’ve posted this in the correct place.
So much warmth and support on here and it helps.

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