Anxietypersonified

[Anxietypersonified]

Thank you everyone for your replies. I’ve slowly been trying to get things sorted – I have an estate agent coming to value the house next week and a mortgage statement for my solicitor. My husband is coming home tonight, working away next week and then back home again for a while so it will be hard to make phone calls etc. I’m actually hoping he’ll start an argument or say something that will remind me just how horrible he can be x

[Anxietypersonified]

Thank you for replying. My husband has always had ‘nasty’ times followed by times where he’s lovely and it makes me feel like I’m going mad. I doubt myself for thinking he’s an abuser and that it must be me being dramatic. This has been my home for (detail removed by moderator) years. He used (detail removed by moderator) to buy into my mortgage, and had it legally drawn up that if we split, he would receive a larger amount than me. When he moved in all of my furniture went as his was ‘better’. I have nothing except for a few pictures and ornaments so would have to move into a rented house and start over with nothing. It’s so horribly unfair.

[Anxietypersonified]

Hi, I did sign the document. I didn’t agree, and was worried that I’d lose so much but because he invested so much money into the house, I really didn’t feel as though I had a choice. Either way, it looks like I’ll lose my home as I can’t afford to buy him out and get a mortgage of my own.

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