First I want to say thank you for everyone’s replies. It is very encouraging and helpful.
Tiffany – I can see your point. I remember when I tried to tell or confront with my partner that I am not a liar. The situation only got worse. I was repeatedly told I am a horrible and evil person. All I said is a lie and only trying to play people’s mind. I was also repeatedly told I am a sickening person and need help. It happened today again. When I insisted I was not lying about something. My partner again said I am a person that is incapable to communicate to so no point to talk to me and just told me shut up.
I keep thinking if I told anyone that my partner is gaslighting me, I don’t think people we know will believe me. The reason I said that is because my partner is a very charming and caring person when in front of other people. At least everyone I come across always said that to me.
