Just to add he always made me feel like I was walking on eggshells. Could not tell him my older boss came into my new workplace to see how I was getting on as he would have questioned why. I always felt like I had to ask permission to see my friends which was not very often as I would spend all my weekends with him. I went to meet my girlfriends for and hour on a Saturday morning and he joked saying why you leaving me which made me feel guilty. We were on holiday and an old man said maybe I can have a dance later and he replied oh no Shen only dances with me which I thought was strange as this man was a harm,was old soul. Also he liked me wearing his special earrings and would question if I wore other ones. Is it me ?