thanks KIP and Savingmyself ….
@KIP it seems that the father son have triangulated and you are the tip. also im guessing that being less toxic yourself means you dont fit in? my family have actually ganged up against me and and joined in the toxic mess! im healthier but im also isolated, and the black sheep! i have been reaching out to friends and making lunch dates etc ….
@Savingmyself, ive read a lot recently and its lead me here! which is a good thing! partly liberated and partly trapped and aching for my young girls. how on earth did professionals buy into his veiw? am i also toxic too? i feel like fighting for thier hearts …. what a mess! i ask god to run him over 🙁
thanks x