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Thanks for the advice! That is exactly what I am worried about…he is so manipulative and can put on the charm.

My heart races literally at the thought of mediation but I have been told by a few people that it will look badly on me if it goes to (detail removed by moderator).. did you experience this?

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Thank you for your reply and sorry you have had a horrible time too!

I am really worried that my ex will act like Mr Perfect too! Did you end up completing the mediation?

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Karmasister, I can really relate with your message. Looking back he has had so much control over me for so so long! I hope I can keep the strength to keep separated, he constantly seems to make me feels sorry for him

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Thank you SunshineRain, I will find out more info about local services. I did try a couple but had no luck.

Today felt like progress to begin with, I spoke to the Police about the threats. They were quite helpful.

Now I need to get a solicitor, my partner is now saying he will vacant my property (detail removed by Moderator). I really doubt that he will, he cannot see how threatening and intimidating he is when he speaks. Talking to him today was just awful – cutting communication seems like the only choice but I dread to think he will act then

I also feel really uneasy that the deadline he gave has passed and I am not back with him!

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Mummyboo, it is nice to hear that things are getting easier, there is a little light at the end of a very dark tunnel now! I need to try and speak more with my family etc, my partner is such a charmer the people I have spoken with genuinely find it hard to believe how nasty he has been!

He is very angry that I have refused for him to see the children alone, I honestly couldn’t trust that they are safe with him after the threats he made. this is going to be a very difficult part as I can’t see him ever giving up on contact.

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Thank you for your reply, it is so hard to stay strong. He is making continuous threats to me about ruining my career and family relationships etc.

He has given me a deadline to return home or he will act. I feel constantly sick and cannot stop shaking.

I know being away is the best thing but I cannot imagine life getting any easier.

He is behaving so irrationally, I question whether he has had a mental health breakdown etc or whether this is the first time he really has not had control over me?

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Thanks for you reply Lisa,

Things are definitely escalating since I have left, it is so hard.

He is making so many threats, to damage my career, relationships with family and friends etc unless I go back by tomorrow.

I have tried to call the help line lots of time but have not had luck at getting through to anyone.

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