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[Empath]

Hey kip
Sorry to hear that and totally understand you.im finding it hard to deal with everything although I did find it helpful once sunk in what we talked about x

[Empath]

Thanks guys
See I wonder if he astute enough to behave this way.i too found myself stuttering not been able to answer quick enough or if was right thing to say. I hold a professional job down and never have no probs there as I’m confident in what I do
Love
Empath

[Empath]

Hi Hun
Be proud of how far you come with yourself and kids.Dont ever lose that fight and that it’s a process takes time to heal but your on the right path and your family friends behind you well done but be kind to yourself 💕💕💕

[Empath]

Thanks for replying,
I know I need to find my fight he doesn’t have no one so hangs onto me sending me txt such as I’m his hero and he forgives me calling police that’s laughable, he even said your not the victim I am and really it’s the kids who suffering I feel as if I’m stuck I told him I haven’t been in love with you for years and his response was if we start sleeping together we become closer. When we was intimate when we was together he made me feel dirty and disgusted say thinks like open ya legs u willingly do for others, your easy pin me down to the point I just let him do what he wanted. I’ve managed keep him away but slowly but surely he in my life more n more and I’m losing my fight and confidence
Thanks for listening i hope you don’t think I’m self pitying
Love
Empath xx

[Empath]

I put in a complaint that if people did their jobs properly I wouldn’t be in This mess and most prob would of got on by now but it’s like no
Matter how hard I try he back in my face.he crying not eating, won’t work and drinking heavily he looks a mess and now I feel guilty but when I let him back in all the head games the fights start then stealing off me etc I can’t live like that forever 😢 And I still feel responsible for everything that’s happened and him 😢

[Empath]

Hi
Thanks for replying.we have to kids and so going no contact doesn’t always work.back in Feb we was at court after he strangled me to point I passed out and my kids had to attack their dad to let go of me 😢As per he managed to walk away resulting in a restraining order not being honoured.felt let down by police as their report was badly written giving them reasonable doubt.my DV worker never showed for court and this was massive for me to go alone how I did it I never know😢Then was agreed that we apply non molestation order but again the DV let me down and I’ve lost all faith in the system the social worker even agree she that my case been handled poorly (kids on a child protection order) and I lost all confidence in the system even down to getting therapy for the kids as they been traumatised by what they have seen I just at the end of my tether with it all 😪😪

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I can relate to this I too find my partner doing similar things to me and makes me feel ashamed and confused as to what he doing is not even agreed with me.one time I remember him pinning me down and covered my face saying things like (detail removed by Moderator) or (detail removed by Moderator) makes me feel horrid.when I approach him about it he says it role play and laughs saying don’t be a miserable prude.All this makes me wonder if its sexual abuse or I’m over reacting ??

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Hi thanks for replying to my comment. I too wanted to fight back but didn’t due to a risk of a kick off,as last two times he strangled me to the point I passed out. my daughter saved me 😢I’m confused as didn’t want too but didn’t fight back hard enough to save the aggro this made me question myself ?? But I know I didn’t want too as only bothers with me when he drunk 😪

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