Yes I have several long term chronic health
conditions two of which are balance and absence
disorders. My first marriage I didn’t have them then but went through emotional abuse for (detail removed by moderator) with 3 children. They are now grown up.
I also went through rape when I was (detail removed by moderator) and took the man to court when I was (detail removed by moderator).
My 2nd husband knows all about this as he came to my govt enquiry with me.
We have been together (detail removed by moderator) but together (detail removed by moderator).
During the first few years before I became very poorly I still worked he was supposed too but didn’t always and hid paperwork bank
statements showing we were in debt.we managed to get threw this after using my savings to bale us out but now he is starting with his lies again ,mood swings and anger issues.
He even tried pushing himself on me sexually which brought back my rape
All this I know is my fault.
2 weeks ago he hid from me about finances in our account. It ended up in a big argument and him throwing a plate which scared me.
I had to call the Police.
I have also caught him using what’s app for dating sites . He did this in 2005 using our wedding photos saying it was his brothers wedding.
His Dr sent him for army counselling but not going for that now and not doing his antidepressants.
I can’t find a solicitor that does domestic violence advice so can anyone tell me strategies of what to do if things get worse
Today he is being really nice and kissing me making me feel guilty. I’m very suspicious of him and what he is upto.
