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Anybody? 🙁 Thanks

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Oh and I’ve recieved two bailiff visits in the past month for him for two unpaid council tax debts and other debt letters for various other debts for him for previous addresses

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Should I call 101 and then if they think he really is a danger to himself then they will put it as an emergency? I really just don’t even know what to say to them

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I haven’t replied to his last (detail removed by Moderator) messages in almost (detail removed by Moderator). The last one says (detail removed by Moderator)

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The letter I have had is from a witness care officer from the witness care unit at the police station and it says criminal justice system at the top. (detail removed by Moderator) She says in it that if there’s anything i wish to know or need to talk now about the case to contact her, that she will keep me informed of important developments in the case, and also says if there is anything that she can help with in the meantime, to call, email or write to her. So I don’t know because she says that in the letter, that I should contact her?

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Ok thank you, so I should contact her tomorrow and just tell her everything? Or should I call the victim support officer as I received a letter from them the other day?

Again, thank you so much for your replies

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But because I have been in contact with him, won’t they say the case can’t proceed? I’ve read that on another forum as they said because they’d been in contact with them romantically that the police said the case would collapse so the charges were dropped. I have really been such an idiot. I wish his ex wife had never contacted me or gave me his number and I wish I wasn’t so stupid to have done all this

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Thank you for your reply. How do I get him to go? And without it becoming hostile or violent etc? Thank you!

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But the problem is I have been in contact with him. Yesterday and earlier when he was saying he was going to kill himself I was texting him back still telling him to get some help etc, I don’t have a leg to stand on

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Thank you

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I do still have her number but I haven’t spoken to her since she rang me to say she was sending somebody for me to retract my statement

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Did you tell the police you had been in contact with him?

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Thank you so much, I’m sorry it’s taken so long for me to reply to your reply, I’m trying to get to grips with the forum. So do I just contact them and say I would like to reinstate my statement and leave it at that? What would happen then, do they need to come and see me again or? I really don’t know any of this process or what I am doing

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I didn’t really think about it like that, I just knew I didn’t like that he did it when I was sleeping. And when I had gone to bed in the first place because I couldn’t take him going on about things anymore

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I am ok at home, he doesn’t live here and I have alarms here that go straight to the police and window alarms too

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