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The greyrock was a fascinating read. It also led me to some other pages on (detail removed by moderator) which I found so relatable. The counselling I was partaking in has had to cease because I answered yes to some of the domestic abuse questions and their policy is to not get involved in that. That’s made me feel a bit frustrated as it shuts me out. I found it useful to just chat through things and use it as a way for me to reflect on what I wanted for the future. I’m trying to decide if I have the strength to take the plunge before Christmas. I would be interested peoples experiences of actually ending the relationship in my sort of situation. Not sure how things will turn. I feel he is waiting for me to say it’s over.

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Hi yes you are so right- he isn’t my responsibility and I don’t want to feel like i have to fix him anymore. I feel less and less upset and more angry and determined to get through this and make a nicer environment for my baby. It’s sickening to hear him describe his life as horrendous and i feel utterly drained having to listen to the self loathing and that things will change, i’ll see. I no longer feel anxious about what things will change, what i will need to change about myself because the problems are all his. I am fed up of being lied to about how much he’s had to drink and the constant paranoia of wondering where he is in the house and what mood he’s in. I really hope he is ok. I so care for him, but as the baby of my child only- i want her to have contact with her dad. I dont have the energy to continue as his wife. I am pleased you have found a happier place 🙂

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Hello everyone
I just wanted to say thank you to you alll for taking the time to respond to my chatter. It is really helpful to hear someone acknowledge what I am saying and reassure me that the situation isn’t right. I feel a big hurdle ahead but know that I can be happier than this.

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