Hi. I am currently in the same situation. He doesn’t take any responsibility for what he’s done, always telling me im just looking for his faults or criticising him (turning the blame on me), and there has been (detail removed by Moderator) years of empty promises of change.(detail removed by Moderator) he asked me what he’s doing that’s so wrong. As of this was our first conversation about it. I decided there and then that this was futile. I also had hoped and hoped he would change, but he cannot even admit to the sexual abuse he put me through. I am currently seeking help to leave. I’ve spoken with WA (detail removed by Moderator). I will hear more on (detail removed by Moderator) again. Thank you for sharing your story. Its helped me see mine is not the only one like this. Hope you are able to sort things for yourself and your daughter. I have 3 children with my abuser, and our youngest is (detail removed by Moderator) and has autism. Our daughter is (detail removed by Moderator) and also wants nothing to do with him. Our middle son, he’s (detail removed by Moderator), is unfortunately very loyal to his father. But nonetheless. We will get away and be ok. And so will you.
