That’s what I’m trying to do. I’m just at the point where I think was it that bad. He never actually hit me. He’s make it difficult for me to go out, if I didn’t have sex with him he’d pester and pester me until I gave in. I’d usually get about 3 days peace before I had to do it again. He’d intimidate me the goal posts always changed and I’d never know what made him happy or not. Or what would set him off it could be the smallest thing. Once he started it went on for hours, I learned just to shut up because if I argued back it would last for longer. He was relentless, he also had a terrible temper with my girls never my son. A situation with my oldest daughter finally made my mind up to go.