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    • #141586
      Ishouldknowbetter
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      Hi Lisa
      I also can’t open messages

    • #141530
      Ishouldknowbetter
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      Thank you Hereforhelp and strongenough I keep asking “ WHY “
      How do I plan a exit plan ? I know what I need a car so I can work but most importantly a roof over my head he has isolated me from everyone including my children I’ve been told it’s emotional,coercive and mental abuse that he inflicts on me my health has suffered and I punish myself by not eating as he said to me when i said I was leaving “ I object to you having what I paid for “ he stopped me having access to money . It’s so sad these men feel they can do this , I just want peace and somewhere I can call home to start rebuilding my life I know I will so much better off on my own I just need help to achieve this I want someone to put their arms around me and tell me I’m going to be ok

    • #141585
      Ishouldknowbetter
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      Thank you Eggshells x

    • #141556
      Ishouldknowbetter
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      Your right Beachhut people see the house and the lifestyle the professional “ man “ the mister nice guy the side he wants people to see including his family that think he is a wonderful kind caring “ man “ behind closed doors is such a different story the nasty cutting comments not just aimed at me but at anyone ,the put downs the controlling manipulative behaviour , the constant change of mind one minute he likes someone/something the next he’s making his derogatory comments he once said to me don’t show your weakness cause it makes it easier to use against
      you . House cars holidays ect are all materialistic things and can be replaced I know that but it’s that first step that scares me

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