IWILLBeOkay

[IWILLBeOkay]

Thank you so much for your replies. Today is a bad day – went to the GP who didn’t refer me anywhere for help. But luckily just had a phone call from Victim Support to see what they can offer me. Finding it so difficult to control these waves of anger, shame, upset though. Keep trying to think of when I’ll feel better but right now it’s hard to see the light.

Sorry for being negative xx

[IWILLBeOkay]

Had confirmation tonight that they won’t pursue the investigation due to lack of evidence and it wouldn’t be beneficial for them to interview his son who was in (detail removed by Moderator) when it happened. Not the news I wanted before my NYE celebrations but I’m determined not to let it ruin my night. I have to remember that Karma is a powerful thing and I have to bide my time wisely.

[IWILLBeOkay]

My whole world changed within the space of 24 hours and I still struggle to deal with that. Luckily haven’t had to seek legal advice as the estate agent has managed to sort money/payments with him so I don’t need to contact him for that. I just wish every single woman he comes across know he has this hanging over his head. He’ll do this again – what he did to me. Looking back there were tell tale signs of abuse but I guess it’s not as obvious when you’re in the relationship.

Thank you for your kind words. They do really help and I need to be just that: kind to myself. I’ve lost too much sleep worrying and thinking about what he did and whether I’ll be okay when actually, the fact I’m starting to smile more is an achievement in itself.

Thank you again for your reply x

[IWILLBeOkay]

Thank you. Just gets me feeling angry. I invested all this money into a house, paid for everything (how silly, I know!) and now he has a nice house at the end of it despite everything he put me through. That’s what I keep telling myself to calm me down – that my statement will stay on record for WHEN (not if) another woman comes forward. (Detail removed by moderator). I just wish I could shout from the rooftops who he really is x

[IWILLBeOkay]

Please keep talking. Never ever ‘put up and shut up’. Seek out those family members, the helpline numbers, GP support. You are a strong, brave lady and you don’t have to live a life like this – money or no money. X

[IWILLBeOkay]

Thank you so much for your relies. They’ve reduced me to tears but in a good way. I just feel everything is so unfair at the moment. He has a son and the police are ringing (detail removed by moderator) to let me know if they’re going to question him, somehow I think he will be prepped on what to say well before they arrive (if they do!).

I’m so grateful for this forum. My parents have been angels but I don’t think they understand how much it’s affecting me right.

Again, thank you for your words and taking the time to reply. So very very grateful

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