Thank you for your replies.
It is the hardest thing to escape from but if anything can make you do it its children.
My daughter suffered both at home and school. Asked why I let him do what he did. She gave me the strength to get out.
Its a shame the groups offered are not run by people who have been through it. But to be fair we all get out our own way when we finally make that decision.
I ignored him for months, yes he questioned me and eventually sealed his own exit. Witnessed by my child.
Thankfully she was old enough for him not to play mind games with her. It broke her heart, but she supported me.
My mum lived a similar life and got out. And she saw the same in him. I am just glad she saw me get out before she passed away.
One day I woke up and just thought I have had enough. I read so many things to get advice.
I chose my own way to do it based on him. Eventually it worked.
