Thank you so much for your reply. It has been very strange to read so many similar stories and realise that this ‘a thing’ I really can’t understand why these men do these things, and I’m sure there are women that do it too. I’m a nice person, I’ll help anyone, I do everything I can for my family and I’m a very happy person (when I’m not around him) I’m able to forget it totally. Thanks for your advice, I will get some advice as while I’m living with him I’m paranoid about what he’s doing to sabotage my life, he opens post if I don’t get to it straight away and will swear blind it never came, I’ve just realised that he must have called HMRC and got the tax credits changed into his name so now I’ve been made redundant and have no tax credits, I’ve always been the one in charge of our income as he has barely worked, I always have and have paid the bills, though there’s never been quite enough money to be comfortable or do anything nice so he’s never felt he has to control the money but now i suppose he feels that’s something he has because he’s lost control over me and what I do. I’m rambling but I’m enjoying getting it all out there, it’s definitely a relief.
What about you? I’m so sorry to read your story, I see how you help so many people on here, with advice, guidance, love and understanding, are you ok and getting help? Do you have a plan? 💜
