Looneytunes

[Looneytunes]

It is . I am mentally drained .  He puts the blame on to me.

i accept I’m not letting him having time alone but he doesn’t understand what he’s doing wrong.  He doesn’t see it as neglect or dangerous because he is there closely “supervising” .
if we have argued in the past I have still showed up at weekends so he can have his time.  This time I’m not doing, I don’t feel comfortable around him and he is now saying I am ruining the chance for his bond to build.

 

at the very start he wanted a paternity test because he had doubts. When I questioned him he said yes I have doubts but I’m not accusing u of anything.
you have doubts the baby is yours yet ur not accusing me 🤷🏻‍♀️.  He is a very good manipulator and he makes u feel like the worst person because I have put boundaries up.  He sees them as restrictions and has openly said he will push my boundaries .

 

[Looneytunes]

Forgot to add. We have tried to work it out, but when he kicks off and I say we can’t keep doing this he agrees but the next time he sees me he all touchy feely and trying to flirt and cuddle . I said this is confusing I don’t know what u want or where I stand.

If I was to do all he asked and not have a say he would be happy.

I’m not so much worried about me. I’m worried for my son , as in will he feed him on time and when he’s hungry? Can he keep his temper at bay? Will he remember the essentials for baby? Can he deal with him if he’s upset and not settling?

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