Lostinlife

[Lostinlife]

The question of abuse has always been in back of my head im always questioning myself, not understanding how others can see it and I can’t, but since your message I have applied to the council near my family, I packed a case got on the train to a friend’s which while I’m there I will be visiting the council to provide more paper work ect get things moving a bit and i have also told him I will be back next week and be needs to have left by then with everything he owns in the property or I will call the police and go to court for restraining order. I doubt you realised what your message would do so I needed to let you know that your message was a slap in the face but a slap in the face I needed as silly as it sounds after reading your message over and over I felt stronger that I’ve felt in a long time and got up and told myself I can do this. I don’t doubt it won’t be easy but then nothing worth it ever is right?. I wanted you to know your experience of abuse and your message has helped someone ❤ thank you so much and I hope your messages give others the strength they gave me ❤

[Lostinlife]

He may not have a right to stay but unfortunately I’ve been here before police let him go after a few hours and he continues to make my life hell and harass my family. Ile never understand how these vile people want to live like this. As for cafcass they only got involved as me and my ex were going through family court no involvement from social services even tho I asked for help from them, my partner knows what he is doing when he’s doing it as he has never kicked off or started on my in front of my son or anyone for that matter he wants everyone to think he’s this amazing saint and we have a happy life but I’m far from happy and you only have to look at me to see that right now. (Court detail removed by moderator). I’ve tried calling the helpline a few times no luck as of yet but it took me a while last time I called so I will keep trying. Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Has anyone left and gone on to be happy? Is this even abuse? My head feels like a scrabble board right now. I feel like a fraud being on here and ringing the helpline as he doesn’t beat me but reading what some of you have been through you truly deserve a medal. ❤

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