Malabma

[Malabma]

Thank you both for your comments. You’re right, the aftermath is really tough. I’ve been unable to record the phone calls but I did record him when he was in my house. I have a few recordings because I had to check for my own sanity that it wasn’t me being unreasonable. I also have the messages he sends me and a screenshot of one evening when I had over 100calls and messages within an hour! I thought about an injunction and had hoped I wouldn’t have to do that but in the end perhaps I should. I’ll keep it in mind. I am trying not to let his comments affect me and I keep trying to say ‘I’m going to hang up’ and then actually do it. I’m getting better at it!

[Malabma]

Thank you Headspinning. That is so true, we do forget about ourselves. It’s like I brush it under the carpet the way I’ve been made to feel and when it’s calm I think oh maybe it’s ok.
(detail removed by moderator) I was making dinner and when he came in he wasn’t in a great mood and he got cross that I had made it wrong, he was so annoyed and saying that I should at least try and make nice food for us. I had no idea what I had done wrong with it. He apologised later because he realised it was actually ok and I then let it go. I think I perhaps shouldn’t have.

[Malabma]

It’s going to be a massive upheaval and it is hard to say stuff like this out loud. It’s taken me a long time to even join here because I just didn’t know what to say. (I still don’t really!) Hang in there KitKat, we’ll get there.
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[Malabma]

Thank you for your comments. It’s all a bit weird really. I never really considered it was like this. I just figured he’s just a volatile person, that it’s just the way he is. I don’t want to do it anymore. It’s hard to know how to remove myself from the situation.

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