Miserable@home

[Miserable@home]

I guess I don’t like to think its abuse as she’d so loving but I do feel hemmed in, hate getting up in the morning, hate picking up my phone when notifications come through or even a phone call, I swear her ears start flapping when I’m on the phone , she pretends she’s not listening but she will stop what she’s doing and sit next to me, even interrupting the conversation I’m having which is annoying .

I feel like I’m too old to be going into a woman’s refuge and I have no kids to take with me, will they refuse me?

I have already emailed the dogs Trust to see whats what.

I’m just so confused 😕

[Miserable@home]

I’ve guessed for a while that she is obsessed, if my phone goes off she wants to know who it is , if I’m reading/writing a email she asks who I am writing to , if I reply none of your business she’ll say you shouldn’t have anything to hide from me, I try to tell her I’m not hiding anything from her she just doesn’t need to know who I’m emailing etc but she’ll insist she does cause she loves me .

I didnt realise that I could get help with pets etc because I remember a few years back someone had to give up her pets because the refuge/women’s aid wouldn’t help her .
I feel nervous about making calls as I’m not very good on phone calls I struggle to process information unless written down and struggle to follow conversations

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