Misssy123

[Misssy123]

Hi QG … I myself am sitting in the exact sane boat and have done many times before . The conclusion that I have came to after (detail removed by moderator) without him is it would never have worked and neither will yours lv .. kicking & smashing things are most definitely abuse ! How dare he do that ? How dare he scare and frighten you ?! How can another human being do that to someone they say they love ! Not helping you around the house or contributing money is all control .. he’s selfish & manipulating ! Making you feel bad & guilty by saying he’s going to harm himself because you left is sick and it sound like he is a little bit and deep down inside him he knows this and knows that it will play in your mind and that’s another little game play .. he isn’t harassing you because he loves you I’m sorry to say that but it’s because you finally took control and decided no I’m not having this because you know you deserve better and not only better but peace in your head & heart ! He also knows no one else is going to put up his crap not ever so he’s disrespecting you in that way so please please keep your mind busy this does pass as it’s not your fault ! You tried I’m sure many times to make it work and succumbed every time to his demands etc but now you need to take your life back before something really serious happens and your too far gone down that rabbit hole … as fir the good times we all have them , we all many many amazing times but it’s when the tough gets going that you see their real true colours and you need to ask yourself could you stick that honestly fir the rest of your life ? I don’t think you can my love .. most of the time we miss them is because it’s the one person that’s always been there it’s like routine and now that’s all gone and hopefully for the better you can maybe find some peace .. a little clarity to know that his behaviour is not normal and that it’s not your fault at all !!!! Missing him is going to be a huge part of moving in but it must be done and best so it alone . Let him call .. let him text .. tell the police .. tell everyone but keep yourself safe and do not give in to his manipulative demands . As for covid-19 we all across the world globally have all this time in our hands and he’s bored and your the target of his boredom and the more you refuse to give in he will eventually get bored also trust me . In the meantime as I said stay safe and well and do not give in . Men like him will never change .
What happens in the dark always comes to light . I wish you peace & love . X

[Misssy123]

Ah ladies thank you all so much it all makes so much sense ! I appreciate every word and I’m so glad I have in here to be heard and to learn . I will go back to my counsellor she’s an amazing lady & I felt so comfortable around her but was a little embarrassed but I know now I shouldn’t be . Thanks ladies xxxxx

[Misssy123]

Thank you kip . I finished with him on (detail removed by moderator) because f how his threat made me feel and I simply cannot go back to those days I have come to far . I have a counsellor in women’s aid but I spoke to her before about him and then I took him back because still I thought it must be me because he has done and does so much for me and I’d very attentive etc and so I was embarrassed to go back to her again . We both spok of how it’s only going to get worse and I knew it .. I felt it but yet I went back because I felt not only was it my fault but that I owed him something .. he had told me to go wrap myself around a (detail removed by moderator) with my car and die and that’s actually how (detail removed by moderator)  and I just froze I couldn’t even speak while he kicked n punched at my car for running away from him .. I then thought my god he needs help but I now know that’s not my place .. I thought it would have been hard leaving but in actual fact I’m really ok . Thank you for listening xx

 

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