Hi Kip and thanks for replying. I have just emailed his dad telling him i was going to retract my statement as i love him. God im so stupid. Im sat here worrying about him in custody and not myself. No i have not had any help with womens aid or gp the police gave me womens aid contact. The last time my husband choked me i actually prayed he would kill me as i was so tired and now i wish i was as he had control over everything and i am at a loss as what im meant to do anymore. But i will read living with the Dominator and no i have not done the freedom programme