This is my first time posting on here. I am perpetually in a situation where I don’t know if this is abuse or not. Which seems to common. My husband tells me that I abuse him by not listening to him, or by answering a different question to the one he asked. His verbal aggression is beyond anything I have heard of. He has been physically violent but quickly blames me, and asks (detail removed by moderator).
I feel so isolated, so alone, he has told me that I have manipulated my friends and family to side with me by lying to them. I don’t really have any friends now, as I try not to speak to them in case I’m accused of lying to them again.
