I’ve been out of my relationship for (removed by moderator) months after being with him for (removed by moderator)yrs, I feel so stupid that I didn’t realise it was a controlling relationship, I met him when I was suffering with depression and anxiety and he helped me to get well or so I thought but I now know that as long as I was ill he was wonderful but if I became to well he would withhold his affection and time which made me ill and he came charging in on his white horse, with help from my wonderful son’s im out of that relationship and hope to start my new life