Needhelptoleave1

[Needhelptoleave1]

Thankyou in replying ,

I have no support I don’t have any proper friends the ones I do have aren’t ones who would give a shit anyway they are more like going out type of friends. My mum is a huge support usually but don’t want to teller about this situation as I don’t want her to stress. I’ve tried ringing up everyone from women’s aid to any domestic helpline I can find but to be honest It’s dtill not helping me decide on this baby. I have phoned up the housing they said I wouldn’t even be entitled to going on the housing list as I haven’t been in the area for 7 years (detail removed by moderator) they would offer a refuge but I said I wouldn’t want that as I do feel safe in my house and my girl starts school in stepember I don’t want to bring her into all that I want her to be in a proper house to come back to everyday after school

What’s most messing my head up is I went for a private scan to find out the gender I don’t know why I did this I regret it now. They said (its most likely) girl and I’ve always wanted another girl I grew up as a only child I would love for my daughter to have a sibling. I’m (age removed by moderator) years old I feel like I don’t have time left i would have to start from scratch again in finding someone settling down being with them for a while to consider children with them all of that takes time that maybe could never happen again possibly

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[Needhelptoleave1]

Hi thanks for the reply ,

I don’t know what to do in the sense of having this baby. I cannot do it alone I’m not well mentally (from him being like this)
I wouldn’t be able to financially cope either I live In private rent not council so the government wouldn’t help me either I struggle to pay half the rent every month let alone the full rent AND another child expenses

I’m ready to move on from him but this pregnancy is making it worse if I’m honest

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