Notallthosewhowanderarelost

[Notallthosewhowanderarelost]

Hi, thanks so much for sharing your story, yes I would love to be able to use this as a way to move past some of the things I’m dealing with and to begin with I was really determined to do that, just feel like it is so hard now. But I will keep trying and keep reminding myself that this isn’t him.
The things to overcome seem so big at times and I feel exhausted by them. But I am determined to try and stay positive and it helps hearing from others that I am not alone in experiencing this.

[Notallthosewhowanderarelost]

I haven’t read it but I will take a look, thank you sounds like it could be really helpful. I do feel ashamed in a way I guess, also it has been almost (detail removed by moderator) years since I left my husband but still I feel this way so I guess I am disappointed in myself for still not having moved on from it. I feel like I should be able to cope with this better by now xx

[Notallthosewhowanderarelost]

Thank you so much for your reply, it helps to know that I am not the only person this happens to. Its annoying as I don’t want him to still have an affect on me but he does and its so hard to not get upset/scared/confused when this person is near me. When I was with my ex I had to be on constant alert for his mood changes and his reactions and I feel like this is how I am around this person in the office. I wish I could talk to someone here about it but I’m not sure I want my manager to know.

Thanks so much for taking the time to reply xx

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