Thank you both, yes you’re right and it’s good to hear what you say and know it’s true.
My daughter is too young to fully understand and make her own decisions, but old enough to know the day is coming up and likely have questions especially this week as they will no doubt be talking about it in school.
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He has only seen her once as I’m trying to insist he apply to the court, and he acted the victim, asked her to pass on messages etc as you say.
I know it’s for the best but feeling anxious today about the week ahead x