Owl@01

[Owl@01]

Thank you so much.. I honestly feel like I am going mad at the moment and that it is me who is the issue.
Yes with low blood sugar etc and driving you have to be hypo aware, the Dr’s have warned him that if this continues then he will or they will have to declare to DVLA. The thing is day time/work he is hypo aware, I think that is where night time must be related to the alcohol.

his behaviour is generally worse when his sugars are not under control properly. however when I have left recently his sugars have been ok, and he has still reacted in same way, he trapped me in the door in (detail removed by moderator) as I had gone back to my parents and Id brought one of the dogs back and also to collect some medication. However the next day he said it was related to sugars but his sensor showed differently. and I think you are probably right that the diabetes is making the abuse worse.
He has been violent (in a hypo situation) with his parents in the past where paramedics and police have been there. But no generally if out or with family etc he is all ok. for example at the (detail removed by moderator), we had the girls and went for a meal with his family. Before we went out, he was awful saying again it’s over, his brother realised he was acting like that. But then when out was lovely and all his family praised him for making progress and seeing the hospital etc about his sugars to help our relationship and that he had cut down drinking. I sit there thinking.. yes he has but the behaviour has continued.
My daughters are step daughters, both from different relationships.
Its so hard, this morning he is saying he so wants us to go away just so he can prove he is trying hard. But he still won’t agree with the advice from the counsellor at all and said they are totally wrong.
I just don’t know how to have the conversation with him to say that can he not see that this is all wrong. but I know he will say you are throwing away (detail removed by moderator) and just think I am with someone else. All I want him to see is that his behaviour has got worse and if we can try to fix things then we need to follow the guidance from professionals.
the rental property is not available till (detail removed by moderator) so at the moment I am at home, I think I am going to try to talk to him tonight and I may need to go to my parents.

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