Thank you for your reply.
Yes he is approaching teens. His dad is giving him a lot of freedom to the point where he is being treated almost as an adult and obviously at that age my son thinks it’s great. He does have freedom here but age appropriate! I don’t think some things he’s being allowed to do are safe personally but perhaps could be seen as parenting style to professionals.
Court proceedings would be required but in the meantime I’m the nasty parent not allowing my son to do what he wants to do and what he’s always really wanted to do (what he’s been told he needs to do to please his father!) since he was old enough to listen!
I just don’t think he thinks for himself or realises that some things he’s being coaxed with are lies. I don’t think he understands how different his life would be or that he basically wouldn’t see me because that’s what his dad’s ultimate goal is and he can use siblings and fun activities to make sure he won’t have chance to come back at weekends.
