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Hi herewegoagain,

Fantastic news! It’s so lovely to hear how you’ve got out of that awful relationship, moved forward and healed. Great to hear a positive story after getting out. Gives hope!

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Thanks for your response goingthroughit. I guess I feel bad and want to help him as he says he’s depressed and when I ask him about it to help he’ll snap so I have that feeling sorry for him. I keep thinking I was being silly and he’s just boisterous. Sounds stupid but I don’t know how to leave him, even what to do or say

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Thank you so much for your messages. I feel like I am normal from airing this out. I didn’t tell my friends anything and just my sister knows the odd thing as I thought I was sensitive and now they do know everything they’re so shocked and disgusted but it’s not as easy to just leave like that and to talk about it with ppl who have gone through similar things is helping. You’re right in that deep down I know what he is doing isn’t right. I feel so far from who I am. Honestly been feeling like I’m nuts. My mum had a similar situation as you that my dad was abusive before they got married but was here and there and she thought after marriage be fine but got so much worse and it makes me feel like a fool that I saw that stuff and it’s also happened to me! I will try and find out where there is one locally to see best way to leave. If I carry on I think I’ll become completely broken. I hope you’re ok and if you need to talk I’m open

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Thank you for your advice and support. It’s so hard when you’re in it. I thought if I would never let anyone treat me like that and if someone said I’d be in an abusive relationship I wouldn’t of believed them as I usually take no rubbish from people. He is very affectionate and gives me so many compliments I think I get confused when he does something not normal. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through that stuff, it’s horrendous and you’ll find the strength to get through it. One person out of how many ppl in world?! Should make feel like this. It was very rare he would do stuff but recently he’s doing the whole how many ppl have I slept with (detail removed by moderator) I do feel so much better to air it out. I’ve been thinking I’m crazy!! We deserve so much better than this xx

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