He has already tried to blackmail me with telling the council he’s been here. Luckily my (detail removed by moderator) so the locks wouldn’t be a problem. It does mean I will have to tell her whats been going on which is difficult. I’m currently looking at terminating my pregnancy which is awful but I feel pushed into a corner and there’s no other way out. I don’t suppose you have any advice about telling him or not telling him? He’s never going to agree to it as it’s his last hold over me so I need to do it in a safe way.