Purplebloommm

[Purplebloommm]

I did ask and he just said that any man would feel the same – he said I should change it if I want to move forward. He has since started to ignore me, I’m not sure if this is him trying to manipulate me

[Purplebloommm]

Thankyou he has started to block and unblock me so I can see this is all a game

[Purplebloommm]

Yes I agree with you I thought it was a bit much after a first date however he said it in a very ok way (didn’t directly tell me what to do ect just said he didn’t like it that everyone knew were I was), so I believed he was just explaining himself. He then said he wanted to remain friends then asked me to see him the next day, which I did then ignored me ever since. Very confusing behaviour, this isn’t something Iv experienced before.

[Purplebloommm]

Thankyou for your advice – I feel like Iv been loosing my mind from him saying quite in-depth stuff after a date to then ignoring me. I did see him again the day after he said that and I thought he was ok, could this really be to do with sulking because he can’t get his own way when he saw me again before ignoring me?

[Purplebloommm]

Equally this is all after 1 date I didn’t think people tried to control this soon

[Purplebloommm]

Thankyou I felt they were red flags but because he wasn’t aggressive and he put it to me that he wouldn’t make me stop telling my family ect we’re I was (this was another issue for him that I’m close to family), I wasn’t sure if I was paranoid. I’m confused why he is now ignoring me after sending lots of messages

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