Thank you for your reply freedom to choose
I’m sorry I didn’t make myself clear earlier. I moved (Detail removed by Moderator) mikes away with the kids (Detail removed by Moderator) years ago. He followed and we reconciled. So we’re living in the same town again now.
Now it’s over fir good as I filed divorce his abuse post separation has gone through the roof. Where I live many of his friends drive past my home and one friend of his overlooks our house.
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Oldest child is saying they want to live with him however he’s manipulating this one with money and material goods and both have made very serious false abuse allegations of me.
SS are involved but have not removed any children, I think? Hope? They are starting to realise it’s nit true but if course court might deem oldest live with him due to age etc.
I would suggest holidays and phone contact, something along those lines when I notify. I just know he’ll do his damnest to prevent me. (Detail removed by Moderator)
Equally forewarned is forearmed and that may help him to block too.
I’m looking at places but doubt I’d secure somewhere let alone move there within next (Detail removed by Moderator) weeks. Financially I’m not quite there.
(Detail removed by Moderator) It’d help if I found a job too but again things I have to tie up here likely won’t be done in time.
Talking and thinking out loud in this safe space helps.
