Thank you everyone for your honest replies. It really is a tough situation and i don’t know what to do.
The main reason i put up the post was recently i have seen a read up alot about emotional abuse as there has been a few things i’ve started noticing. Like he will blame everything on me and call dumb reguarly. If i want to spent time with him he will call me controlling. And he regulary tells me i make everyones life hell, including today. When he loses his temper he will always threaten to leave me and says horrible things. This has been going on for most of our relationship but only recently i’ve been thinking it might not be okay, because my friends pointed it out. I am still coming to terms with it all and right now i love him too much to leave him.
But the one thing i thought was atleast he doesn’t try control what i am doing or who i am friends with. So what happened with the renting situation has shock me a bit and i was panicking that maybe hes trying to control. But i dunno.
It’s worth adding that we’ve been together since we were young, and he has had no previous relationships so hasn’t been cheated on. But the main thing is my other male friend is gay and Has a boyfriend. And before this situation they got on really well.
