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Hello

I have tried to do a referral. Just been told it’s first come first serve so I might not be able to go in a refuge. I feel like I didn’t tell her everything because I felt under pressure from my anxiety.

I will get a call back if I’ve even been accepted.

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Thank you so much for the advice! Its really helpful and really appreciated!

Unfortunately I can’t pack a bag as he will see it and question me. I won’t be able to get a few things together as he will see it being moved. There isn’t any hiding place. He doesn’t go out so I have to leave strategically when he is out. He isn’t out much, about 1-2 times a month.

Thank you so much. It reminded me of a few things I need to pack!

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Will I be able to leave the same day I look for refuge? It’s just I don’t have much time as partner doesn’t go out barely.

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No it’s not key.

I just thought there might be refuge workers that have an office their and keep an eye on things maybe.

I think I’m just scared of being alone. I’m also worried how I will cope mentally as I have a mental illness that can get difficult some times.

I was just thinking. Will I need to buy some sort of lock for my things? I’m not doubting other women, I’m just so use to my things being looked through or taken etc

Thank you for your reply 🙂

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Thank you so much for the advice and support. I’m not going to share the specifics otherwise I’ll be here all day. I think I’m going to go on womens aid live chat and hopefully find a refuge space soon. I am hoping they will help me with some sort of support worker as I have mental difficulties.

Does anyone know what it’s like in a refuge? Do I get my own little space with a lock on the door?

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