Reebees

[Reebees]

Think the panic is to do with living without him and juggling baby, dog and working full time. Having all the bills and half the wage coming in. 😱 it all so scary!!!! But I’m strong enough and no other way as I know I wouldn’t be able to think clearly what I want under same roof. I’m not scared of him at all just suppose it just sad as 80% of the time he’s fab but the 20% has got unbearable.

[Reebees]

That so hard to accept That he is just not a nice person as 80% of the time he is lovely and is a good father but I know I can’t accept his behaviour any more but don’t nessessry believe any one can’t chamge if the really want to. Lot of his issue is low self esteem and insecurities but enough is enough. He’s really annoyed me tonight as he’s trying to stay and saying he’s not a total bas***d with me and tries to support me and build my confidence. I’m worried now he’s chipping away at my head and he won’t move out on weekends. Limited contact isn’t going to work really as we have no support so will need to pick up and drop baby 3 times a week. I don’t know what to do if he refuses to leave. I’m solely on deeds and he has no occupancy right to house but can’t throw him onto street. Any suggestions anyone???

[Reebees]

Thank you for ur lovely reply I do feel strong but he has a way to talk him self out if it and make me feel sorry for him. I also trying to give him a glimmer of hope to remain amicable so we can make agreement as min he know how serious I am then mr nasty will be back out.

Do u mind me asking, When u say he wiggles his way back so u mind me
Asking did things improve or after the initial happy grateful period things built up again? Did u stay with him?

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