Hi, this is my first post on here. Just so confused on what to do. I am a (removed by moderator) old mom of two children aged (removed by moderator) and married. Lately over the past 18 months I feel like I have been worn down by my husband. It started when I tried my hand at my own business but it didn’t work out and he says it’s because I didn’t listen to his advice. So I the get 2 jobs but I have to work on sundays which he doesn’t like because it should be for family but want me to pay in equal share of our bills. He won’t help with childcare cost because it was my choice to choose a job that isn’t just in term time, and kicks off if I ask my mom to help out with childcare because I’m not standing on my own two feet. Moans I want to spend time with friends and calls them names and when I finally told him last November that I wanted to leave he said if you want to throw (removed by moderator) away that’s up to me but your not leaving with the kids. So I stayed thinking things will get better but I just don’t want to be here…. I know he will make things so hard for me if I just went…. and he told me that it would be my choice to put the kids through a long long court battle which he knows I wouldn’t be able to afford. I just don’t know what to do!
