Hi zantium. I’ve just read through your post.
I totally understand your confusion and reason for trying to put off having a baby or getting married to this guy. I think he is wanting to keep you sweet as he knows your expecting money.
My opinion is you get your money that your expecting. You rent a flat for the time being on a 6 month contract and you leave the house. Tell him that your not coming paying the bills and your selling your half of the house if he doesn’t make changes and get a job.
It will be hard but be stern and hard on him. Tell him he has 6 months to get a job and change his attitude towards you. Until then you stay in your flat. Make him no that you ain’t coming back until he’s proven to you. Then after that then yous can think about getting married when yous both have jobs and a nicer relationship.
Then after that you can think about children. You can’t bring a child into a sour relationship it just makes things more stressful and complicated, at least in my experience it did.
But I do no it is a lot easier for someone saying do this do that. Than it is for you actually doing it.
Good luck and stay safe x
