Susie

[Susie]

Thank you, that’s all brilliant advice! I do have a very good relationship with school and try to go to as much as possible.

I am going to try as many of the things you have suggested I can.

I’m fortunate that I have a lovely little home and a new boyfriend. I just want to move on with my life, but I feel trapped in a vicious cycle with my ex. I want to protect my girls and bring them up to be healthy confident girls. My heart goes out to everyone in this situation. There isn’t enough in place to protect people.

Susie

[Susie]

I thought about going to see my GP but I was concerned he could somehow use this against me?! I’m still at work full time but I can’t concentrate. It’s all consuming. I was absolutely fine until I got his latest letter  weeks ago that was full of lies. It’s so frustrating.

Thanks once again. Does anyone have any advice for trying to empower my girls whilst this is all going on. I know they will realise in time but it’s hard in the mean time.

Susie

[Susie]

Thank you for your replies. I have contacted social services today so we will see what happens. (detail removed by moderator). I’m not sure whether he is bluffing, but he likes to keep me dangling. I will contact ROW tomorrow. Thank you very much for your advice. I really appreciate it. I felt complete at a loss.

Susie

[Susie]

Thank you for replying. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. This is my worst fear. I can see my girls believe what he says. Despite seeing and hearing things he does/says. It’s awful. I’m hoping that CAHMS will help. School have recommended I refer to social services because the girls are told to keep secrets and not tell me what happens at his house.

I have been contacted by (detail removed by moderator) who has told me that she is aware he has had ‘relationships’ with teenage boys. I don’t know whether this is true, I have never met this person before. I have passed all this information on to the police but I haven’t heard anything in response. I am so worried about my girls and I feel let down by the system. I don’t know what I can do to protect them.

I have tried looking into a non molesataton order against him, but he is clever. He has stopped all contact with me now, he just sends false allegations in solicitors letters.

Hopefully Lisa will have some good advice.

Thanks

Susie

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