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Thank you for your message and I think you have got that right. He is financially supporting us and that is all. I have done the accounts for his business for years now so he is my boss and partner, really not the best decision I made. I received a weird text the other night saying I’m not the problem that his business and his own and that he may move out within the week and has stuff to sort. I am still not sure if that message was meant for me as all he said when I asked about it was don’t worry your brain!

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Again thank you for your messages. I understand what you are all saying but why am I not believing it is abuse. A few people have said I keep making excuses and I do blame myself as he had to provide for me for (detail removed by moderator) years whilst I had no job, this was so I could look after the children instead of paying for childcare. Lots of friends have said I deserve better, again I am having trouble believing this.

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Thank you for your messages, I really thought it was best to carry on as I never wanted my children to have parents that aren’t together. We never married so not sure whether that is better for separating with children. Will find a solicitor to talk to as well then. I have read some other messages here and my situation isn’t really that bad, feel like I am overeacting?

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Thank you for your reply, I haven’t called womens aid but next week I have my second appointment with a counsellor, a meeting with the citizens advice bureau and seeing someone at the children’s school about my options. My mum is close by but only has a one bed place. Partner seems to call friends and family names too, not sure if I am overreacting to his personality which is why I decided to see a counsellor

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